I Miss My Lil DD :'(

Bismillah.&.Assalamualaikum..

Semalam Mr. hubby & I balik KL without our lil DD

Terpaksa tinggalkan lil DD di kampung sebab Mama nak ikut my sis, Kak Dina dtg KL hari ni..

I mintak tolong Mama untuk jagakan lil DD sebab my babysitter, Kak Zira, cuti raya cina seminggu

Since I baru tukar kerja, I tak boleh nak cuti.. 

Lagi pun a week before dah apply cuti sebab Kak Zira ada hal nak kena settle..

Initial plan was to bring over Mama datang KL on Monday with us

Tapi since Kak Dina from JB balik kampung & they want to go back today, so Mama nak follow Kak Dina..

Tak kisah la, yang kisah nya nak tinggalkan lil DD with Mama over a nite!

Actually I risau lebih takut lil DD tak tido, kesian pulak dekat Mama..

(last time Mama jaga lil DD, lepas tu terus Mama demam.. #_#')

Lagi pun ni first time after a year lil DD tidur dengan orang lain selain I..

Last time ialah masa dia 5months sebab time tu eczema dia sangat teruk..

But masa tu dia baby lagi kot..

Sekarang dah besar, dah tau differentiate her parent dengan somebody else..huhu~

But eventually, everything went smoothly..

She's been crying masa Mr.Hubby & I balik, but it just last for a few minutes

Tak sampai sejam kitorang gerak, I call rumah tanya pasal my lil DD

Mama cakap dia tengah main-main..

Betul cakap Mama,

"Tak payah nak risau, belum sempat korang sampai KL, dia dah ok dah.."

Lega... (tapi a bit kecik hati sbab kejap je dia menangis)   (-_-')

Maybe sebab she's been with her cousins.. So main-main, lupa la dengan ummi & abah dia.. 

Tidur pun Mama cakap ok je, tak ada bangun-bangun..

Mama cakap lagi,

"Dengan korang je dia mengada-ngada.." (^,^')

Malam tadi Mr.Hubby & I kusam je..

Maybe penat sama kot..

Walaupun tidur kami tak diganggu, tapi still tak lena tidur ingatkan anak..

Adoyai..

Bukan anak yang kesian, mak bapak yang kesian sebab rindu kat anak..

 Drama gila me & mr.hubby ni kan?

Satu malam je kot.. 

But seriously I memang tak paham la orang yang boleh sengaja meninggalkan anak mereka dengan orang lain berhari-hari..

Yes, most of them is because they have no choice..

But some of them choose wealth over their child..

Macam I, I have no choice but to let someone else take care of my daughter during day time..

Alhamdulillah, Allah help me to find someone nice such as my babysitter, Kak Zira..

But then I try to do whatever I can for my lil DD..

Masakkan makanan, mandikan dia sendiri..

Teach her whenever possible..

And the most important thing, sleep at night..

Because that is the least moment I can spend with her after I left her for a whole day..

Money is important, but LOVE is what our child need..

Seek for money but don't neglected your child..

Mama selalu cakap,

"Apa yang parent buat dekat anak-anak masa kecik, bila anak-anak dah besar, dia akan buat benda yang sama dekat mak bapak dia.."

Contohnya, macam my parent, ke mana diorang pergi pun, mesti nak angkut anak-anak..

As a result, anak-anak bila dah besar, ke mana-mana pun, mesti nak angkut mak bapak.. :D

Macam mana kita nak anak-anak kita layan kita bila kita dah tua nanti, macam tu jugak la kita kena treat anak kita sekarang..

Tak sabar nak jumpa my lil DD, another 2 hours

Til then, bye peeps!