Children See. Childen Do.

Bismillah & Assalamualaikum..

Last 2 days masa tgh naik lift dkt rumah, ada 1 family ni masuk dalam lift sekali dgn kitorg..

Ada ayah, mama & 2 wonderful child..

The eldest is a son, while the youngest is a daughter around 3 y.o..

Then this girl nak open & eat the french fries but the dad tak bagi..

This girl selamba je cakap kat dad dia, "Ayah Bab*..ayah bab*.."

Berulang-ulang kali..

I think the dad tu macam malu la kot dgn kitorang, so dia boleh just cakap,

"Ayah cili kang mulut tu"

The mom mcm selamba, sibuk dengan handphone dia..

I was like, "Erk.."

I don't want to jumpe into conclusion sebab i tak penah tengok the parent mencarut ke hapa..

But this little fella use the word to protest her dad's decision of not letting her eat the french fries! 

So there must be from somewhere la the little girl know about the word..

It can be from her brother, kids that she know, only God knows..

But apa yang i nak stresskan di sini ialah betapa anak-anak kita terdedah dengan isu-isu negative ni..

Kids is like sponge, copy cat, parrots..

Following and absorbing anything that they saw or heard..

I myself pun selalu jugak keluarkan perkataan-perkataan negatif ni bila marah..

But when you have a kids, you should always be aware of your behaviour..

Like my hubby, pun selalu jugak terkeluar those 'words'..

Memang sah-sah la kene cubit dengan i oke..

Bila dah dengar sendiri macam mana budak perempuan tu cakap kat ayah dia,

baru la nak rase *gulp* kan?

So parents..

We may not able to change other people lifestyles, but we can change ours..

Let us build a family with positive environment..

Our future society behaviour starts from us..

Small changes do comes with BIG impact..

 I ended my entry with a short clips worth for our thinking..