Kronology of the Birth of My Lil Princess, Tengku Dalili Damia

Alahai, blog aku, siannye.. empty sokmo.. time pregnant xde mood nak update blog + bz ngn keje.. Skrg ni baru ade mase + mood nk update blog..

Aku skrg da dpt title mommy..Alhamdulillah, pd 11 Julai 2010 @ 0745am, aku selamat melahirkan seorg baby girl yg chumel.. Aku & hubby m'berikannye name Tengku Dalili Damia..

Again, alhamdulillah, baby mendgr kata ummi die.. Mase pregnant, bape kali aku pesan baby dlm pewot supaya keluar lepas aku da start cuti bersalin.. Sepatutnye expected due aku 14 Julai 2010.. So aku da apply cuti start 10 Julai so that lepas maternity leave aku abis, aku leh sambung terus cuti raye.. So pjg laa sket cuti aku..hehehehe~

Saturday, 3rd July 2010...

Nak djadikan cite, a week b4 aku start on leave, aku lik ipoh check up kt pantai puteri sbb plan nak bersalin kt ctu.. Aku request Dr. Mimin, (as advised by my auntie yg penah jd doc kt pantai puteri dulu).. During the check up, Dr. Mimin had done scanning and mention that baby da on the way masuk through the pelvic.. Bile aku bgtau aku start cuti nxt week, Dr. Mimin bg aku MC seminggu coz x kasi aku travel kl-ipoh..very risky katenye.. So kirenye, cuti aku da start seminggu awal la, hehehe~..

So during a week aku dpt mc tu, aku kt umah ipoh, agak bowink sbb xde ape nak di buat.. & it is my first time aku seperate tido ngn my hubby since we get married..huhuhu, sedey gak.. (hubby aku lg la sian kt umah sowg2).. But lepas seminggu pn aku x rase sakit or anything..

Saturday, 10 July 2010..

My next appointment with Dr. Mimin.. Dr. Mimin tnye ade sakit ke tak? Aku pn jwb, "X de sakit ape pn doc" ... So Dr. Mimin pn scan and then die check kt aku nye 'bwh'.. "Dah lembut dah" katenye.. So tunggu je la, anytime.. Dr. Mimin set next Wednesday utk nxt appointment..kalo after a week baby x kuar gak.. kene induce la..Waaaa~ takutnye..Akak aku ckp induce sakittt...

Sok hubby nak lik kl lik, sedeynye..Cane kalo baby kuar time die kt kl? Sempat ke die nak lik? Risaunye aku.. Aku still x rase sakit pape pn lg.. Mama suh hubby bwk aku jln2.. Seminggu dok umah melingkor je lg laa lambat baby nak kuar.. (Tp mase pregnant awal2 dulu aku byk berjln pe).. So mlm tu aku, hubby, mama & abah kuar g uptown ipoh.. Konon2 nak beli stoking.. Baru jln separuh pasar, ujan lak.. So xde mood aku ajak sume lik.. B4 lik abah singgah beli nasi lemak ayam kg + kueytiow ladna.. konon2 nak mkn esok sbb cm da kenyang.. Sekali lik umah, sume pn bedal bg abis daa.. Nasib baik bedal mlm tu gak, kalo x kempunan aku nak mkn ns lemak ayam kg, hehehe~

Sunday, 11 July 2010...

2am..

Aku ngn hubby dok kt ruang tamu, ready nak tgk match German vs Uruguay.. Berkobar2 nak tgk Paul si sotong kene buat sambal ke tak, hahaha~.. Tgh tgk2 tu aku rase cm senggugut + sakit pinggang.. Aku teringat K.Dina ade mention contraction tu rase die cm senggugut.. Betul ke tgh contraction ni? Tp kejap2 je..So aku ignore je la & focus tgk bola..

4am..

Bola da abis.. Like predicted by Paul si sotong, German menang.. nasib baik, kalo x jd sambal sotong la ko Paul..hehehe~ Yg aku lak, makin kerap lak sakit & time tu aku dok pk, "This is it.." The most dreadful thing to think about.. Mintak tlg hubby panggey mama..Mama tanye sejak bile sakit & kerap kali ke tak.. Aku x tau nak xplain, rse mcm everytime je.. Mama kate kalo x kerap baik toksah g hospital lg.. Nnt kt hospital, kalo 'bwh' tu x bukak byk, die akan tunggu gk.. Aku pn ok kn je la..Maybe tunggu kul 8am nnt la g hospital.. Aku suh mama g smbung tdo dulu..

5.30am..

Dr kul 4am td smpai laa 5am, bile rase je contraction aku rase cm nk pengsan dah.. Peluh menjejeh2.. Aku suh hubby tido dulu coz sian die x tido 1 mlm (tgk bola punye psl).. Aku tau hubby ku tdo2 ayam.. Mama turun, tnye cane.. Rupenye mama dr kul 4am td x tido, wat semayang tahajjud kot..Aku ckp kt mama aku da x leh nk tahan.. So mama kate jom je la g hospital..

5.45am..

Smpai hospital, nurse check rupe2nye da bukak 5cm da..so nurse suh aku stay kt labour room while tunggu doc dtg.. Mase tunggu tu ade laa pulak dgr org dok jerit2.. Lg laa tambah panic aku.. Nasib baik hubby boleh temankn sepjg menuggu dlm labour room tu..

7.15am..

Contraction makin frequent..Nurse da suh aku baring je.. According to the nurse baring mengiring leh kurangkan sket rase sakit.. Everytime aku sakit je nurse suh aku sedut oxigen (which is some sort of pain killer called Entonoks).. Time ni aku ade rase cm nak tercirit.. Cpt2 aku ckp kt hubby nak g toilet..Nasib baik nurse dtg & halang.. Rupe2nye yg aku rase tercirit tu is the blood coming out..Nasib x g toilet.. Kalo x, beranak kat toilet aku..

7.30-7.45am..

Dr. Mimin smpai & checked.. It's about time.. Nurse letak both my leg kt atas penghadang.. Then nurse kate mase push nnt hold on to the besi yg disediakan..That is the only time i let go my hubby's hand.. Sepjg contraction i've been holding his hand.. Bile stg sakit lg kuat aku genggam tgn hubby aku..

Aku da ready da nak push.. In fact i'm been pushing since a while ago.. Aku nak cpt2 get through this.. Nk cpt2 lepas sakit ni..Tuhan je yg tau sakitnye.. Dr. Mimin da ready to ujung kaki aku.. Die suh aku baca bismillah & push.. Aku pn baca bismillah & selawat & push sekuat ati aku.. 2x push, aku dgr suara baby nangis..

Doc tunjuk kt aku baby & mention it's a girl.. Alhamdulillah, mase tu sume sakit yg aku rase td lgsg ilang.. Doc letak baby atas perut aku & suh aku pgg.. I can feel my hand shaking a lot! Not sure sbb sakit td @ terlalu heppi tgk baby, hehe~

Moment after deliver..

Hubby aku terus terduduk dgn muke yg pucat.. Nasib baik x pitam, hehe~ Actually, die dok tahan dr nak pitam dr aku contraction lg.. Hubby aku ckp, mase push yg 1st tu doc pecahkan air ketuban, memercik smpai die2 pn kene,hehe~.. Hubby aku ckp, 1st push baby da kuar separuh bdn, 2nd push, terus kua sume..

Mase doc jahit kt bwh tu da x rase ape coz doc da inject bius..So the sewing session tu xla dreadful sgt..Siap leh borak2 ngn hubby terchenta..

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Alhamdulillah, Allah had made easy for my first pregnancy & delivery all along.. Morning sickness tu biase la, most women pn suffer morning sickness.. But my morning sickness not as bad as my mom & sis.. I only suffer the pain of delivery for about 6hours.. I had my hubby at my side all the time, from i start to know that i'm pregnant, till our baby is born.. Thank u syg, i'm not sure i can handle this without u by my side.. Alhamdulillah, syukur kpd Mu Allah krn nikmat mu ini...

I'm now a person with a big responsibility, to my husband and my little one.. Hopefully Allah will grant His blessed for me to be a faithful wife and a good mother.. AMIN..

Nak bersalin kat mane??

Aku cm konpius nk bersalin ktne nnt.. Nak g private, cam rase mmbazir lak.. Nk g government, takut lak, diorg kate mcm2 kes kalo government..

Dah laa aritu mama da suh lik bersalin kg..
"Kak Dina dulu da start contraction pn terjah jugak lik ipoh dr jb.." kata mama..

Tanye Kak Dina lak, respond die..
"Aku lain, aku tak keje, boleh laa lik bersalin kat ipoh. Ko tu keje.. Kene apply cuti kalo nk bersalin.."

Aku pn termangu2.. Kalo lik ipoh nk bersalin kt hosp Pantai.. Tnye mak wai, katenyer dlm RM1300 cmtu.. For private, consider ok la tuh..

Tp pk2 lik, kot nye tetibe baby nak kuar awal, cane??

So td aku pn decide to go for government hosp. Baru pas tepon Hospital Putrajaya..aku tnye
"Cik, kalo nk bersalin kt hospital putrajaya cane prosedur die eh??"

"Puan dok mane?"

"Puchong, nape?"

" Ooo..kalo dok area Puchong kene g kat Hospital Serdang. Hospital Putrajaya ni utk area Putrajaya ngan Sepang jek."

Pulak...

Td ade gk surf forum2 nak cek cane hospital serdang nieh.. So far feedback okay.. Maybe leh try..So, esok, agenda ialah utk menelepon Hospital Serdang pulak!!

Chocholate and French Fries Cravingsss!!!! :P~

In one day, aku dah abiskan 1 bar of chocolate bar Mars & Cadbury Dairy Milk Caramello..Ya Allah, cravekan chocolate lak.. sejak semlm lg..ingatkan dah xde vomit2.. tp seems like still ade.. but this time aku vomit just bile aku makan ubat..

baby..baby, penat je umi makan ubat tu tau.. mahal tau ubat tu, sebotol rm50..ade 30 kapsul je.. Neurogain.. so that nnt anak umi ni jd bijak..insyaallah.. My sis yg suggest amek ubat ni..for baby brain..

everyday aku akan amek supplement obimin, kalsium & neurogain nieh.. walaupun payah gilers nak telan, tp sbb baby nye pasal, telan je lar...

this week, already 22 weeks, baby dalam perut da start kicking a lot.. mcm last week sekali sekala je..skrg tendangan makin kuat, leh nampak perut tu bergerak2, hehe.. tp bile suh hubby pegang perut, diam lak die.. sekali sekala je tendang, x nak kasi babah die dissappointed kot, hehehe~... & time yg die start active is at night, dlm kul 10 @ 11 camtuh.. aii, nnt jgn suke jaga malam sudah..penat nnt umi ngan babah nk kene stay back..

One of my colleagues nk resign, so we all had a farewell lunch kt bbq chicken.. aku amek set share ngn member aku mkn set korean chicken charbroil, sungguh mcm x puas ati.. french fries die mcm sedap, besar.. nak order takut lambat lak.. so mcm terase nk ajak hubby carik french fries besar laa mlm ni..kat mane ehhhh????